The Fourth of July – a Migraine Success Story

Every single year… it never fails: major migraine for Independence Day. I don’t know if it’s the heat or allergies, or whatever… a massive migraine for the holiday.

I usually push through until I can’t anymore. For instance, I’ll make it to the family party, but stay home while the rest of the family joins in neighborhood fireworks.

It works. It’s disappointing, but it works. Because my family has a good time while I work with my dumb head.

This was one particularly terrible Fourth of July migraine in ~2014. I was clinging to my Marc at the holiday pool party. My migraine was so severe, I was was firework-ing in my brain and nauseated beyond belief.

So it was a great surprise that this Fourth, I woke without horrendous head pain!

Marc and I leisurely got ready to attend a neighborhood celebration. We were so looking forward to seeing and celebrating with dear friends.

As the hours passed, I continued to marvel at the state of my low/no migraine. Where was she hiding?

We arrived at the celebration at about 4. And still was nearly migraine-free. We so enjoyed the party; I only had 2 glasses of wine – because I wanted to play it safe! And I had so much fun connecting with and enjoying sharing with friends!

I am so blessed with amazing neighbor friends who understand my health issues – and they seem to like me anyway! How do I know this? Because they continue to invite us to their parties – even though I sometimes can not attend due to migraine.

We stayed a few hours and got home in time to enjoy the neighborhood fireworks from our back porch.

And there is was! A true WIN! And we went to sleep after a very, very nice holiday! #winning and #grateful!

Speak your Migraine

What’s worse than #ChronicMigraine?
…when, despite treatments & medicines & rest & planning, I simply can NOT “power through” and do something I really, really, really want to. I simply can NOT get out of bed, not even crawl to an event I committed to & was looking forward to.
I am just so sorry… and just so sad. All I do is let people down. Why would anyone want to be friends with someone so unreliable, sick, and …absent? It is terribly embarrassing and isolating. It’s just a shadow of a life.
I am just so sad. So sad …and so sorry.